They cry because they are hungry, cold, wet, tired, bored, warm, or just uncomfortable.All babies cry.
Doctors have found that during the first 7 weeks of life, a baby may cry 21/2 hours a day. Babies usually cry less as they grow older and they find other ways to calm themselves, like sucking on pacifiers or fingers or playing with their hands. While crying is normal, some babies seem to cry for no reason. They are not easily calmed, and they cry for long periods of time. These babies are often referred to as having colic.
What Is Colic?
These signs may mean that a baby has colic:
* Unexplained crying and fussiness (not due to hunger or pain)
* Crying that begins in baby's first month (usually in the first weeks)
* Irregular crying, one or more times a day
* Excessive crying (from 20 minutes to 2 hours each time, or more than 4 hours total each day)
* Nothing seems to calm baby
A colicky baby may also do one or more of these things:
* Cry a loud, piercing cry
* Swing her arms and legs while crying
* Arch his back while crying
* Pull her knees up to her stomach while crying
What Causes Colic?
We don't know for sure, but babies may cry because ...
* Gases passing through the baby's stomach cause pain.
* Painful cramps occur because of changes in hormones after birth.
* The baby is too stimulated by the outside world. A colicky baby may not be able to "ignore" sights and sounds.
* The baby cries to release tension.
* The baby cannot stop unwanted behaviors, such as crying, because don't yet know ways of the baby.
Tips for Remedy and Relief
There is no cure for colic, but there are some things you can do to comfort a fussy baby. To help baby cry less, follow these tips:
* Feed just the right amount-not too much, not too little. Babies who cry after eating may want to suck rather than eat more, or they may need to cry a little as they fall asleep. Talk with your doctor if you aren't sure if your baby is eating enough.
* Give the baby things to look at or listen to earlier in the day. To keep baby calm, avoid active play late in the day.
* Change the baby's position. If you are holding the baby, put her down and let her kick. If the baby is lying down, pick him up and talk to him.
* Handle baby gently. Don't shake or move the baby roughly.
Try these ideas, too:
* Hold your baby in your arms. Keep his arms close to his body. Walk or rock the baby gently, while talking to him softly. Remember gentle! Shaking or bouncing too roughly can harm your baby, or even cause death.
* Sit and hold your baby face down with your hand under her tummy. Slowly rock your legs back and forth, or lift them gently up and down.
* Lie on your back and lay your baby on top of you with his tummy down. Massage or pat his back slowly and gently.
* Give your baby a warm bath, gently massaging her tummy with your hand, soap, or a soft cloth.
* Turn on a radio, vacuum cleaner, hair dryer, clothes dryer, or water faucet. Some babies are calmed by steady sounds and noises.
* Offer your baby a pacifier (again, remember to be gentle-you can injure the baby's mouth if you are too rough).
* Take your baby for a ride. If you use a car, be sure to place baby in a safety seat.
* Place the baby in a wind-up swing; be sure that his neck is supported.
Seeking Medical Help
If you find that your newborn cries a great deal, see a doctor to be sure there isn't a medical problem. Parents of colicky babies shouldn't be afraid to talk openly with their doctors. It's important to mention any concerns you have so you can put them at rest. In some situations a doctor may prescribe medicine, but there is not any medicine yet that completely cures colic in all infants. If medication is prescribed, ask your doctor to talk about the possible side effects.
Coping Techniques for Parents
Caring for a colicky infant can be very difficult. The frustration may become overwhelming. Parents of a colicky baby need to have a plan to help them get through the stress of colic. Keep these ideas and tips in mind:
* Remember not to take the crying personally. Your baby's crying is not a comment on you as a parent.
* Take deep breaths. Try to relax as much as possible. A crying baby can be very frustrating, so try not to "lose your head."
* Take turns with the baby (with your spouse or someone else).
* Try taking 15 minutes to calm your baby. If she is still crying, put her down and let her cry. After 15 minutes, try to calm her again.
* Your first concern should be to make sure baby is safe and secure. It is normal for babies to sometimes cry.
* Take a break from your baby. Ask a trusted friend or relative to babysit so you can spend some time away from your infant.
* Talk to other parents, especially people who have had colicky babies themselves. These may be friends, relatives, or people in a parent support group.
* Don't be afraid to accept or ask for help from friends or relatives who offer. If you can, hire someone to help you around the home.
It can really try your patience to have a baby with colic.
Just remember that the crying should happen less often as baby grows older, and be sure to ask others for the help you need during these difficult months.
Wednesday, 27 August 2008
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Wednesday, 20 August 2008
baby firt word
Before babies learn to talk in a real language -- English, say, or French -- they babble and coo, playing with sound. That's baby talk, and baby talk sounds similar the world over.
But when will you hear your baby's first words? Critical milestones for a baby learning to talk happen in the first three years of life, when a baby's brain is rapidly developing. During that time, your baby's speech development depends on your "baby talk" skills as well as your baby's.
When will you hear your baby's first words?
The first "baby talk" is nonverbal and happens soon after birth. Your baby smiles, grimaces, cries, and squirms to express a range of emotions and physical needs, from fear and hunger to frustration and sensory overload. Good parents learn to listen and interpret their baby's different cries.
Just when your baby will say those magical first words varies greatly from individual baby to individual baby. But if your baby misses any of the following milestones in speech development, talk to your pediatrician or family doctor about your concerns.
Baby Talk Milestones
* Baby talk at 3 months. At three months, your baby listens to your voice, watches your face as you talk, and turns toward other voices, sounds, and music that can be heard around the home. Many infants prefer a woman's voice over a man's. Many also prefer voices and music they heard while they were still in the womb. By the end of three months, babies begin "cooing" -- a happy, gentle, repetitive, sing-song vocalization.
* Baby talk at 6 months. At six months, your baby begins babbling with different sounds. For example, your baby may say "ba-ba" or "da-da." By the end of the sixth or seventh month, babies respond to their own names, recognize their native language, and use their tone of voice to tell you they're happy or upset. Some eager parents interpret a string of "da-da" babbles as their baby's first words -- "daddy!" But babbling at this age is usually still made up of random syllables without real meaning or comprehension.
* Baby talk at 9 months. After nine months, babies can understand a few basic words like "no" and "bye-bye." They also may begin to use a wider range of consonant sounds and tones of voice.
* Baby talk at 12 months. Most babies say a few simple words like "mama" and "dadda" by the end of 12 months -- and now know what they're saying. They respond to -- or at least understand, if not obey -- your short, one-step requests such as, "Please put that down."
* Baby talk at 18 months. Babies at this age say up to 10 simple words and can point to people, objects, and body parts you name for them. They repeat words or sounds they hear you say, like the last word in a sentence. But they often leave off endings or beginnings of words. For example, they may say "daw" for "dog" or "noo-noo's" for "noodles."
* Baby talk at 2 years. By the age of two, babies string together a few words in short phrases of two to four words, such as "Mommy bye-bye" or "me milk." They're learning that words mean more than objects like "cup" -- they also mean abstract ideas like "mine."
* Baby talk at 3 years. By the time your baby is 3, his or her vocabulary expands rapidly, and "make-believe" play spurs an understanding of symbolic and abstract language like "now," feelings like "sad," and spatial concepts like "in."
Can you teach babies to talk?
Babies understand what you're saying long before they can clearly speak. Many babies learning to talk use only one or two words at first, even when they understand 25 or more.
You can help your baby learn to talk if you:
* Watch. Your baby may reach both arms up to say she wants to be picked up, hand you a toy to say she wants to play, or push food off her plate to say she's had enough. Smile, make eye contact, and respond to encourage these early, nonverbal attempts at baby talk.
* Listen. Pay attention to your baby's cooing and babbling, and coo and babble those same sounds right back to your baby. Babies try to imitate sounds their parents are making and to vary pitch and tone to match the language heard around them. So be patient and give your baby lots of time to "talk" to you.
* Praise. Smile and applaud even the smallest or most confusing attempts at baby talk. Babies learn the power of speech by the reactions of adults around them.
* Imitate. Babies love to hear their parents' voices. And when parents talk to them, imitating their baby talk, it helps speech develop. The more you talk their "baby talk" with them, using short, simple words, the more babies will keep trying to talk.
* Elaborate. If your baby points to the table and makes noise, don't just give him more noodles. Instead, point to the noodles and say, "Do you want some more noodles? These noodles taste good with cheese, don't they?"
* Narrate. Talk about what you're doing as you wash, dress, feed, and change your baby -- "Let's put on these blue socks now" or "I'm cutting up your chicken for you" -- so your baby connects your speech to these objects and experiences.
* Hang in there. Even when you don't understand what your baby is saying, keep trying. Gently repeat back what you think is being said, and ask if that's right. Keep offering your loving attention so your baby feels rewarded for trying to talk.
* Let your child lead. During playtime, follow your child's attention and interests to show that communication is a two-way game of talking and listening, leading and following.
* Play. Encourage children to play, pretend, and imagine out loud to develop verbal skills as they become toddlers.
* Read aloud. Lifelong readers come from young children who have plenty of fun, relaxing experiences of being read to out loud.
If you're concerned about a speech delay
Watch for any sign of a major speech delay in your baby, and talk with your doctor if you sense there's a problem. A speech delay can happen for a number of reasons, but the earlier a speech problem in babies is diagnosed, the more time you'll have to correct it and help your child reach his or her full potential before school age. Here are things to do to help with delayed speech:
* Have a hearing test done. As many as three out of 1,000 newborns have hearing loss, which can cause delayed speech development. Be sure to have your infant screened for hearing loss before leaving the hospital right after birth -- or by 1 month old at the latest. Give your baby a full hearing exam by 3 months old if he or she doesn't pass the initial hearing screening.
* See a speech-language pathologist. A speech therapist can diagnose and treat specific speech, language, or voice disorders that delay speech. Treatment may include giving parents tips and games to improve speech problems in babies and improve a child's language skills.
* Consider developmental screening. Up to 17% of children in the U.S. have a developmental or behavioral disability such as autism, intellectual disability (also called mental retardation), or ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder). Ask your baby's doctor about screening for these developmental problems, which can cause speech delays.
What's the first step for babies learning to talk? Encourage your baby's first words with your frequent cooing, babbling, talking, and singing. Keep responding positively and showing you care. When it comes to baby talk, that's the best building block.
from source : http://www.webmd.com
Sunday, 10 August 2008
First Foods For Your Baby’s
First Foods For Your Baby’s
From birth to 6 months of age
Breast milk is the best food for your baby. Offer iron-fortified formula to babies who are not breastfed. Babies do not need solid foods until they are 6 months old.
Breastfed babies need 400 IU of vitamin D each day from a vitamin supplement. Formula fed babies may need a vitamin D supplement depending on how much formula they drink. Babies who drink both breast milk and formula need a vitamin D supplement.
Ask your doctor or a registered dietitian about whether your formula fed baby needs a vitamin D supplement.
Why start foods at 6 months of age?
• At 6 months of age your baby needs more nutrients, especially iron.
• Your baby needs to try different tastes and textures.
• Most babies are ready for solid foods. Signs of readiness include:
- baby sits and holds her head up, and
- watches and opens her mouth for the spoon, and
- does not push food out with her tongue.
• Before 6 months high-nitrate vegetables (home-prepared carrots, spinach, turnips and beets) should not be offered.
How much should I offer my baby?
• Let your baby decide how much to eat. When feeding your baby, look for signs of hunger and fullness.
• Babies will shut their mouth, turn their head, or push food away when they have had enough to eat. Do not force your baby to eat more when he has had enough.
• Babies who are still hungry will continue to open their mouths for food and may be upset when the food is taken away.
Use the amounts of food listed here as a general guideline only.
How do I start?
• Offer one new food at a time.
• Wait a few days before adding another new food.
• Do not put cereal or other solids in a bottle.
From 6 to 9 months of age
• Continue to breastfeed or offer iron-fortified infant
formula whenever your baby is hungry – about 720-960 mL (24-32 oz) each day. As your baby eats more solids, he will gradually drink less breast milk or formula.
• Sips of water may be offered in a cup, but don’t let your baby fill up on water.
• Your baby does not need juice. If offering juice, limit to 60-125 mL (1/4-1/2 cup) per day, served in a cup. Offer 100% juice only.
When starting solids, choose a time when baby is content, interested and alert. Begin by offering solids 2 to 3 times per day and increase to 3 to 4 times per day. Sit down and eat with your baby.
• Start with small amounts of high iron foods like single-grain iron-fortified infant cereal or well-cooked finely minced meat, poultry or fish. Mix with breast milk, formula, or water.
• Gradually increase cereal to about 60-125 mL (4-8 Tbsp) each day. If your baby does not eat meat, aim for at least 125 mL (8 Tbsp) of cereal, on average, each day by 9 months of age.
• Offer cooked, well-mashed vegetables like yams, sweet potatoes, potatoes, squash, carrots, and mashed fruit like pears, peaches, and bananas. Start with small amounts and gradually increase to about 60-125 mL (4-8 Tbsp) per day.
• Continue to offer meat, poultry and fish, while adding other high iron foods like cooked egg yolk, lentils, beans, and tofu - about 100 mL (6 Tbsp) total per day.
• Around 9 months of age, try cottage cheese, plain yogurt, and small pieces of hard cheese like cheddar or gouda, and pasteurized soft cheese.
Pureed foods are not needed. Baby can enjoy mashed foods and finger foods before teeth appear.
• Offer finger foods such as:
- pieces of cooked vegetables or soft fruit without the peel, such as potato, yam, avocado, apricot, pear, banana, peach, plum
- pieces of toast, roti or tortilla
- cooked rice or pasta
- “oat rings” cereal
From 9 to 12 months of age
• Breast milk or iron-fortified formula – about 720-840 mL (24-28 oz) per day.
• Offer water in a cup.
• Your baby does not need juice. If offering juice, limit to 60-125 mL (1/4-1/2 cup) per day, served in a cup. Offer 100% juice only.
• Do not let your baby sip on juice (or diluted juice) between meals or snacks as this can cause tooth decay.
Offer foods 3 to 4 times per day. Offer solid foods before breast or formula feeding.
• Iron-fortified infant cereal, about 125 mL (1/2 cup) or more per day.
• Meat, fish, poultry, cooked egg yolk, lentils, beans, and tofu – about 100-125 mL (6-8 Tbsp) total per day.
• Soft vegetables and fruit – about 125-250 mL (1/2-1 cup) per day.
• Let baby try self-feeding with fingers or a spoon.
• By 1 year of age your baby can eat the same meals as the rest of the family (soft and diced). See information under safety tips.
Health professionals recommend that egg white not be given to babies until 1 year of age to lower the chance of an allergic reaction.
What about cow’s milk?
Breastfeeding is recommended until your baby is 2 years-old and beyond. When your baby is 9-12 months old and taking a variety of iron rich solid foods, it is okay to start substituting whole milk for breast milk or formula.
Babies and toddlers need fat for brain development, so choose whole milk until 2 years of age. Lower-fat milk (1% and 2%) can be offered after 2 years of age. Other drinks such as soy or rice beverages may be offered after 2 years of age, but check the label to make sure they are fortified with calcium and vitamin D.
If you choose whole goat milk, make sure it is pasteurized. Most goat milk does not contain vitamin D, in which case your baby would need a vitamin D supplement.
Tips for enjoyable mealtimes
Help your baby develop healthy food habits and a relaxed feeling about eating.
• Offer food at the same times each day.
• Sit down and eat with your child. Babies and children enjoy company while eating.
• You decide what foods to offer.
• Let your baby decide how much and whether to eat.
• Expect a mess. It is part of learning to eat!
• If you have questions or concerns about feeding your baby solids, talk to a registered dietitian.
Safety tips
• Always stay with your baby while he or she is eating or drinking.
• Do not give foods that can cause choking such as popcorn, peanuts, nuts, hard candies, hard raw vegetables like carrots, whole marshmallows, jellybeans, globs of peanut butter, ice cubes, and chips.
• Hot dogs and grapes should be sliced lengthwise first, and then into small pieces.
• Honey can cause botulism poisoning in babies and is not recommended for babies under 1 year of age.
• Milk, juice, and soft cheeses, such as brie, camembert and feta should be pasteurized.
Are you concerned about food allergies? Talk to your baby’s doctor, a registered dietitian or a public health nurse.